Here's some guidlines and suggestions for people in chat; to make all our lives easier. They're divided into 3 categories. Feel free to copy and distribute these as you like. I doubt anyone who needs this advice will take it to heart, but hey, at least it's a good read.
Sorry about the popups, anyone got some free and popup-less webspace I can use? :)
Chat suggestions for GUYS
Chat suggestions for GIRLS
Chat suggestions for EVERYONE